Here are my thoughts on D.I.V.O.R.C.E. and successful remarriage.

A. Bring and keep financial independence in the match.
B. Don't expect the new spouse to solve your old Issues.
C. You will be trading one set of problems for another. Hopefully you will be better equipped to deal with the second set of problems because you are more mature.
D. Have fun more; clean house less.
E. Be sure he has a spot for his stuff that you do not clean or invade without his knowledge.
F. Be respectful and never ridicule him.
G. Be sure he has a hobby before he retires that he can keep busy with during the day while you are at work.